Sapphic A-Spec & Less Visible Orientations

Ace, aro, and questioning sapphics—because community is about more than dating.

A-spec sapphics belong here whether or not dating is the center of your life. Ace, aro, grey, demi, and questioning threads are welcome.

Related reading: Can asexual and a-spec people be sapphic? · What does sapphic mean?

4 threads

A-Spec & Less Visible OrientationsRobin
ace sapphic — does the word still fit if dating isn't the point
aromantic-leaning ace. still feel at home in wlw community and books and dumb memes. sometimes people act like sapphic only counts if you're trying to date. th…
Started 2 weeks ago4 replies522 viewsLast reply 2 weeks ago
A-Spec & Less Visible Orientationstide.
ace and going to craft nights — do people assume i'm there to date
i want friends. maybe queerplatonic stuff someday. not romance. craft groups feel safer than apps but i still brace for someone to flirt and then get weird whe…
Started 3 weeks ago4 replies412 viewsLast reply 3 weeks ago
A-Spec & Less Visible OrientationsRhea
aromantic but still want a life partner — queerplatonic talk
i don't do romantic attraction the way most dating threads assume. i still want a long-term person — shared home, shared errands, deep loyalty. how are people…
Started 1 month ago3 replies319 viewsLast reply 1 month ago
A-Spec & Less Visible OrientationsRhea
ace sapphic — do i belong in dating threads or am i crashing
i'm asexual and still very much into women (romance, partnership, the whole soft domestic thing). sometimes dating threads here feel like they're built around…
Started 2 months ago4 replies511 viewsLast reply 1 month ago