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aromantic but still want a life partner — queerplatonic talk

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Rhea
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Rhea

i don't do romantic attraction the way most dating threads assume. i still want a long-term person — shared home, shared errands, deep loyalty.

how are people finding / naming queerplatonic stuff without it getting flattened into "so you're roommates."

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  • Iris

    Iris

    i say partner and correct people who downgrade it. language is part of the boundary.

  • harper_tea

    harper_tea

    ace/aro discords and local queer friend groups have been better than dating apps for this. apps assume romance as the product.

  • Rhea

    Rhea

    partner + correct. simple. i overcomplicate it in my head

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