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ace and going to craft nights — do people assume i'm there to date

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tide.
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tide.

i want friends. maybe queerplatonic stuff someday. not romance.

craft groups feel safer than apps but i still brace for someone to flirt and then get weird when i don't match energy.

anyone else navigating that without making a whole announcement.

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  • Rhea

    Rhea

    i mention it casually if it comes up ("i'm ace, here for the yarn"). most people shrug and move on.

  • Quinn

    Quinn

    groups that say "not a dating group" in the description attract a better mix in my experience.

  • tide.

    tide.

    gonna filter for those descriptions. thanks

  • Iris

    Iris

    you can also just… enjoy the night. you don't have to pre-clear every possible misread.

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