Rhea
i'm asexual and still very much into women (romance, partnership, the whole soft domestic thing). sometimes dating threads here feel like they're built around assumptions i don't share.
not complaining exactly. just wondering how other ace/aro-spec folks navigate spaces that skew allo.
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Iris
you belong. community isn't a dating pool with an entrance fee. post what you need — the right people find it.
harper_tea
demi here. i mute some dating threads and lean into hobby ones. still show up for advice when i have something useful.
Rhea
that's a helpful frame. thank you
Rowan
also: say the ace thing early when dating. filters hard but saves everyone time.
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