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nonbinary and sapphic — tired of the 'so which way do you date' quiz

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sky.
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sky.

every new space: someone needs a flowchart of my gender before they'll talk about books or hiking.

i date women and femmes and nonbinary people. that's the whole answer. still get the quiz.

how do you shut it down without becoming the gender educator of the evening.

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  • Quinn

    Quinn

    "sapphic works for me" + change subject. if they push, they're telling on themselves.

  • blake.

    blake.

    i say "i'm not a powerpoint" and smile. weirdly effective.

  • sky.

    sky.

    not a powerpoint. love that.

  • Cass

    Cass

    you don't owe a diagram. people who belong in your life can sit with a short answer.

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