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gender nonconforming at work and still getting she/her wrong on purpose

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blake.
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blake.

i use she/her. i'm gnc. coworkers keep doing the exaggerated "sir??" bit like it's comedy.

not a pronoun issue. it's mockery. scripts for shutting it down in open offices welcome.

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  • Rui

    Rui

    "that joke's tired" said blandly has worked for me. laughter dies if you don't feed it.

  • blake.

    blake.

    bland is good. i get too sharp and then i'm the problem.

  • Quinn

    Quinn

    hr email with dates if it keeps going. document like a gremlin.

  • Tasha

    Tasha

    solidarity. also find one ally in the room who will frown on cue. peer pressure cuts both ways.

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