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Fran
came out at 37 after a marriage. people online act like late bloomer means 50+ or that you need a dramatic divorce montage.
is there an actual definition or is it just "later than the teen coming-out script."
what even counts as a late bloomer sapphic
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Maren
no cut-off. it's community slang for figuring it out later than the media story. 30, 40, 60, whatever.
Fran
good. i was worried i was "early late" which is a stupid anxiety to have.
Kendra
early late is not a category. delete that from your brain.
Elena
the phrase is solidarity, not a purity test about how long you suffered.
ivy_walks
out at 29 and still lurk late bloomer threads because the feelings match. labels are tools.
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