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Cass
i know i've posted about labels before. still stuck.
soft masc feels lighter. soft butch feels truer some days. do people flip based on audience or am i just commitment-phobic about nouns.
soft masc vs soft butch — how do you choose
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softbutch42
flip. both can be true across contexts. not a marriage certificate.
jo.
i use masc on apps because strangers get weird about butch. irl i say soft butch to friends.
Cass
audience-based labeling. illegal but effective.
finch
same boat. nouns are tools. you can own more than one screwdriver.
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