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is soft butch a real label or did tiktok invent it

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finch
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finch

friend called me soft butch after i got a mullet and started wearing my brother's jackets.

i liked how it felt? also worried i'm picking a costume. how do people use soft butch vs regular butch vs soft masc without sounding like a wikipedia page.

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  • softbutch42

    softbutch42

    soft butch is real and older than tiktok. it's still butch territory, just not the hardest version of the look. if it fits, it fits.

  • Cass

    Cass

    i bounce between soft masc and soft butch depending on the week. nobody's grading you.

  • finch

    finch

    relief. i thought i had to pick one forever like a character class.

  • Aisha

    Aisha

    only rule i care about: don't slap butch/stud on someone who didn't choose it.

  • dani

    dani

    mullet + brother's jackets is a whole genre. welcome.

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