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when does "staying over a lot" become living together by accident

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Willa
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Willa

half my clothes are at hers. i pay for groceries there. we haven't said the L-word for living.

feels cozy. also feels like we skipped a conversation and built a house out of silence.

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  • Elena

    Elena

    if friends ask where you live and you hesitate, it's time for the talk.

  • Cass

    Cass

    name it: "are we accidentally cohabiting." laughing while you say it helps. then decide on purpose.

  • pepper

    pepper

    split the grocery spreadsheet if you're already splitting groceries. money makes the implicit explicit.

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