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what does masc mean when people put it in their bio

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jo.
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jo.

half the dating apps near me say "masc" or "soft masc" and i keep nodding like i get it.

is it just short for masculine presentation? does it mean they want a femme? does it mean butch? i feel like i'm failing a quiz.

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  • Cass

    Cass

    mostly presentation shorthand. clothes, hair, vibe. not "i am a man." soft masc = masc-leaning without the sharpest version of it.

  • softbutch42

    softbutch42

    butch has more history and identity weight. masc is looser. i use soft butch for myself and get called masc anyway. whatever.

  • jo.

    jo.

    so if someone's bio says masc it doesn't automatically mean they're hunting for a femme?

  • Elena

    Elena

    correct. some mascs date mascs. some don't. bio labels are about how they want to be read, not a dating menu.

  • blake.

    blake.

    on gay mens apps masc can get weird and exclusionary. in sapphic spaces it's usually just "i dress like this."

  • jo.

    jo.

    ok. putting "still learning the slang" in my own bio so nobody expects me to know everything.

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