The Sapphic Sanctuary

struggling to get matches even in a big gay city

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blake.
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blake.

everyone says move to a bigger city. i did. still getting like 3 matches a week and half of them never reply.

is my profile cursed or is this just 2026. bios feel like cover letters. photos feel like a performance review.

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  • Zoe

    Zoe

    big city just means more competition + more people who are burned out. not automatically more dates.

  • olive.jpg

    olive.jpg

    prompt answers that sound like a person help more than another photo at a scenic overlook imo

  • softbutch42

    softbutch42

    deleted the apps again. not a flex. just my nervous system filing a complaint.

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