The Sapphic Sanctuary

moving to a new city alone as a sapphic — how did you make it less bleak

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Ren
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Ren

relocating for work in a month. know zero people. excited and also imagining eating cereal over the sink for a year.

what actually worked for you in the first 90 days.

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  • Zoe

    Zoe

    one recurring weekly thing within the first two weeks. same yoga class, same cafe open mic, whatever. familiarity beats novelty early on.

  • Pilar

    Pilar

    i messaged people on lex specifically saying "new in town, looking for friends not dates." filtered hard. worked better than apps.

  • Dee

    Dee

    library card day one. sounds boring. gave me a free place to exist that wasn't my empty apartment.

  • Ren

    Ren

    library card + one recurring thing. packing those into the plan

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