The Sapphic Sanctuary

looking for a queer roommate without it becoming a dating trap

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foxnotes
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foxnotes

need to split rent. want someone queer for safety/vibes. also terrified of the "we live together and now it's messy" arc.

what boundaries did you set early that saved you.

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  • Zoe

    Zoe

    write house rules like adults: guests, dishes, quiet hours, no dating each other for the lease term if that's your preference. say it before keys.

  • sky.

    sky.

    interview like it's a job. cleanliness mismatch ends more queer roommate situations than romance does, honestly.

  • Hala

    Hala

    separate friend groups help. if your entire social world is the apartment, every conflict gets nuclear.

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