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how do you tell if you're on a date or just hanging

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Quinn
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Quinn

we got dinner. she paid once, i paid once. there was lingering. no "this is a date" language.

in my straight-dating past someone would've said the word. here it's interpretive dance.

do people just… ask. or is that uncool.

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  • blake.

    blake.

    ask. "was that a date to you" is awkward for 8 seconds and then you know.

  • Cleo

    Cleo

    sapphic dating tip from the trenches: nobody makes the first move until someone does. be that someone.

  • Quinn

    Quinn

    okay i hate that you're right

  • tori_tries

    tori_tries

    i texted "for the record i meant that as a date" after the fact once. she said "oh good." we are still together. clarity is hot.

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