Kendra
i'll text a new queer friend every day for two weeks then panic that i'm Too Much.
meanwhile romantic prospects get one carefully spaced message like i'm negotiating a treaty.
is this a late bloomer thing or just my specific nonsense.
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Elena
both. friendship feels safer so you overinvest. romance feels high-stakes so you underdo it.
dani
same nonsense here and i've been out forever. not just late bloomers.
Kendra
weirdly comforting that it's not only us
Cass
try matching energy instead of matching anxiety. if they reply fast, you can too.
Willa
treaty-texting is so real. i've been there.
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