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femme for femme dating — anyone else feel weirdly invisible online

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Nesa
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Nesa

apps push the butch/femme pairing like it's the only plot.

i'm femme, attracted to femmes, and half the prompts assume i want a masc. where are you meeting f4f people without feeling like a glitch.

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  • Mira

    Mira

    put it in the first line of the bio. boring but filters faster.

  • pearl

    pearl

    irl: queer book clubs and femme group chats. apps are hostile to us sometimes.

  • Nesa

    Nesa

    book club. ok. i can be brave about hardbacks.

  • Cleo

    Cleo

    you're not a glitch. the algorithm is just straight-brained.

  • Hala

    Hala

    f4f picnic meetup in my city started from a single discord rant. rant louder.

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