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can i be pansexual and still call myself sapphic

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Aria
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Aria

someone in a group chat said sapphic basically means lesbian-lite and that pan people using it is confusing.

i'm pan. i date women a lot. sapphic feels like home on days i need community language. am i stepping on something.

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  • Maya

    Maya

    you're fine. sapphic is the umbrella on purpose. bi and pan folks who are into women use it constantly.

  • Aria

    Aria

    thank you. the "confusing" comment stuck in my teeth all day.

  • Quinn

    Quinn

    anyone policing pan sapphics usually wants lesbian-only spaces and won't say that out loud. you didn't invent a problem.

  • tori_tries

    tori_tries

    i'm bi and sapphic. both labels do different jobs. orientation vs community umbrella.

  • jess_writes

    jess_writes

    if someone is confused they can ask one question. they don't get to revoke your words.

  • Aria

    Aria

    keeping both. deleting that group chat maybe.

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