Aria
someone in a group chat said sapphic basically means lesbian-lite and that pan people using it is confusing.
i'm pan. i date women a lot. sapphic feels like home on days i need community language. am i stepping on something.




Aria
someone in a group chat said sapphic basically means lesbian-lite and that pan people using it is confusing.
i'm pan. i date women a lot. sapphic feels like home on days i need community language. am i stepping on something.
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Maya
you're fine. sapphic is the umbrella on purpose. bi and pan folks who are into women use it constantly.
Aria
thank you. the "confusing" comment stuck in my teeth all day.
Quinn
anyone policing pan sapphics usually wants lesbian-only spaces and won't say that out loud. you didn't invent a problem.
tori_tries
i'm bi and sapphic. both labels do different jobs. orientation vs community umbrella.
jess_writes
if someone is confused they can ask one question. they don't get to revoke your words.
Aria
keeping both. deleting that group chat maybe.
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