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how do you meet lesbians in a small town with no gay bar

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Ada
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Ada

town's about 9,000. the nearest lesbian bar is an hour and twenty minutes if the highway isn't being the highway. i booked the library meeting room because it's free with a card. Thursday, 6pm. first week was me and a coworker who thought it was a novel club and stayed anyway.

how to meet lesbians in a small town

i'm not precious about the format. sports, coffee, a walk, whatever has worked when the bar is a road trip. i need things that survive a place where everyone knows your mom.

starting a sapphic book club anyway

second Thursday i put a one-line note on the library board. no rainbow, because the board is by the front desk and the front desk is Brenda. is a quiet book club a real way to meet people here or am i hosting a very small book report.

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  • Tasha

    Tasha

    softball. our team has two straight women and they know it. you can be bad. we put the new people in right field and nobody dies.

  • bea.crochets

    bea.crochets

    skip the county facebook group. ours had two men and a woman selling oils. the library board is better. Brenda can cope.

  • Gwen

    Gwen

    i drive the hour once a month and that's most of my social life. the local piece that worked was a Saturday coffee that never called itself a meetup. four people. one of them is my friend now. your coworker counts.

  • Ada

    Ada

    coworker is coming back and bringing her cousin, who is actually a lesbian, so the book report grew a person. right field might also see me. my throw is a rumor.

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