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nina.b
if i wait too long people think i'm flaky. if i lead with it some folks treat me like a project.
looking for timing that isn't a medical intake and isn't a surprise cancel at 5pm.
spoon theory on dates — when do you mention it
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Lina
second hang, casually: "my energy's unpredictable so i plan shorter first plans." filters without a lecture.
bea.crochets
anyone who needs a dissertation to respect a boundary wasn't going to be a good partner anyway.
nina.b
shorter first plans is a good reframe. less apology, more design
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