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LDR tips that aren't just faceTime more

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Ash
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Ash

partner's 4 hours away by train. we see each other every 2-3 weeks. between visits it gets foggy — like are we building something or just maintaining.

what actually helps long distance feel like a relationship and not a subscription.

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  • Cass

    Cass

    shared mundane stuff. grocery lists, voice notes while walking, watching the same dumb show "together." romance is nice but continuity matters more.

  • Gwen

    Gwen

    a next visit already on the calendar. uncertainty is what makes it feel fake.

  • Ash

    Ash

    next visit on the calendar. so simple. doing that tonight

  • Jordyn

    Jordyn

    also talk about the eventual same-city plan even if it's fuzzy. limbo with no horizon is rough.

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