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Lina
she told me last night. i care about her a lot. romantically it's a no.
i said i needed to think (true) and that i valued her (also true). now i'm scared every hang will be weird.
people who've been on either side — what helped.
friend confessed feelings — i don't reciprocate — how not to nuke the friendship
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harper_tea
be clear sooner rather than later. soft nos that drag on hurt more. then give a little space without vanishing.
Rowan
been the confessor. clear kindness > ambiguous hope. i needed a couple weeks of less contact and then we were okay.
Lina
okay. clear kindness. i can do that. thank you
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