tori_tries
never dated women before. have a coffee date saturday. keep imagining she'll clock me as clueless and lose interest.
do i say upfront that i'm newly dating women. or is that dumping insecurity on a stranger before the latte arrives.




tori_tries
never dated women before. have a coffee date saturday. keep imagining she'll clock me as clueless and lose interest.
do i say upfront that i'm newly dating women. or is that dumping insecurity on a stranger before the latte arrives.
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Fran
a light "still figuring out dating women, be patient with my nerves" is fine. a monologue is not. she can meet you where you are.
Willa
curiosity > performance. ask about her. you don't need swagger lines.
Elena
the right person won't punish you for being new. the wrong one will, and that's useful data early.
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