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first date with a woman ever and i'm spiraling about being "new"

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tori_tries
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tori_tries

never dated women before. have a coffee date saturday. keep imagining she'll clock me as clueless and lose interest.

do i say upfront that i'm newly dating women. or is that dumping insecurity on a stranger before the latte arrives.

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  • Fran

    Fran

    a light "still figuring out dating women, be patient with my nerves" is fine. a monologue is not. she can meet you where you are.

  • Willa

    Willa

    curiosity > performance. ask about her. you don't need swagger lines.

  • Elena

    Elena

    the right person won't punish you for being new. the wrong one will, and that's useful data early.

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