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Quinn
we've had three dates. already swapping childhood wounds and future apartment aesthetics. it feels good. also fast in a way that makes my stomach tight.
how do you tell "we clicked" from "someone is rushing intimacy."
deep talks week one — bonding or love-bombing
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Rowan
consistency without pressure usually = bonding. urgency, soulmate talk, and guilt when you need space = yellow flags.
Aisha
try pausing the depth for a week and doing something light. see if she can do ordinary with you, not just intensity.
Quinn
ordinary test. smart. scheduling a grocery run date like a maniac
Jordyn
name your pace out loud. people who respect it stay. people who don't reveal themselves.
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