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Lux
they say they understand. i still feel like the flaky one.
i text with notice when i can. sometimes notice is 40 minutes. guilt is eating me anyway.
how do you keep friendships without performing wellness you don't have.
cancelled on friends three times this month because of flares
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Rowan
offer a low-energy alternative sometimes: voice note hang, watching the same show separately, 20-min call. shows you're still reaching.
bea.crochets
real friends track patterns of care, not perfect attendance. if they're keeping score, that's data.
Lux
voice note hang idea is good. less pressure than "reschedule soon"
kit.
i tell people "assume i want to be there even when i can't." repetition helps.
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