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sage_tea
ex told me i only get to use sapphic "when i'm with a woman" like it's a temporary visa.
we're together now. i still feel weird claiming it after years of being treated like a tourist. how do you shake that.
bi woman dating a woman — do i still count as sapphic
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Elena
you counted when you were single too. attraction to women is the through-line, not your relationship status.
sage_tea
saying that out loud helps. my brain still waits for someone to check my papers.
Fran
late bloomer bi here. the tourist feeling is common and also unfair. you're not renting the word.
Priya
anyone who needs you to be partnered with a woman to "count" is doing purity politics. ignore them.
sage_tea
writing "sapphic" in my bio tonight. tiny rebellion.
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